Life doesn’t improve by chance.
It changes when you understand it and choose differently.

— Sila

The best coaches are people who have done the work on themselves first. My commitment to you is that I will do my BEST to help you, and I genuinely can't wait to do so.

Why Design The Best You

I created Design The Best You for people who are doing the right things, but still not experiencing life in the way they expected.

Most people assume that’s just how life is, and that's part of the problem.

It absolutely isn’t.

My story

I’ve lived both sides of that experience.

I moved to the UK at 20 and spent almost 20 years building a stable career in UK government.

On paper it was a good life but something wasn't quite right for me. Deep down I knew I deserved my BEST life. So in 2020 I left the civil service to build a property business.

I expected challenges. But I didn’t expect was how intense the internal experience would become: constant uncertainty. setbacks. pressure. frustration. disappointment. fear. money issuess. feeling things were unfair.

Despite doing everything “right”, life - once again - became a constant mental and emotional struggle.

The turning point

What changed everything wasn’t my circumstances.

It was understanding how my experience was being created. I learned the tools that enabled me to look at things differently. My many many problems became opportunities I genuinely wanted to take on so I could become the BEST me.

Life coaching gave me the tools to see:

how my thinking was shaping my reality
how I was reacting to external pressures
and how to work with my mind instead of against it

That shift changed everything.

Finally, my life flourished. That's exactly what I want for you.

How I work

I don’t offer therapy, career advice or "quick fixes".

You need to be open minded and growth-oriented.

In simple coaching conversations I help you understand why things are or aren't working out for you.

I'll guide and help you create new reframes so that you can step out of existing patterns that don’t serve you and choose what comes next.

This work is grounded in:

practicality; my own lived experience of what works from across structured systems and independent work
professional coaching training (The Life Coach School, Achology, The Priority Academy)
a deep study of mindset, human behaviour, and change

So in closing...

If something about your life feels harder or less fulfilling than it should be
it’s worth understanding why.

Because when that becomes clear, everything else starts to shift.

Reach out to me - I'm here to help.

Hi, I'm Sila. It's a pleasure to meet you!

Praise for DESIGN THE BEST YOU

Tanya - London

From our very first session Sila helped me understand how to change my mindset, empowering me to embrace a more positive outlook on life. With her guidance, I learned to shift my attention away from the negative aspects of my life and instead celebrate my achievements, no matter how small. She taught me that while things don't always go according to plan, adapting to change can be a very powerful life skill. She helped me identify my key strengths and explore ways to leverage them for my personal growth.

This journey has been truly transformative and I can confidently say it was a really positive experience. I am grateful for her insights and support and would highly recommend her to anyone looking to enhance their life and mindset.

George - Madrid

I discovered a new way of living. I’ve gained clarity, built confidence, and developed a mindset that empowers me to tackle challenges head-on. Now I think from my future. It sounded odd at first, but once I got the concept, it was such a shift!

I eliminated patterns I didn't really know I had but kept me limited. It was transformative and enjoyable.

I do and feel successful!

Thanks!

Anne - Paris

I knew Sila from group-coaching and I decided to do one to one with her. I was about to move to France and was a bit nervous, so I knew I would benefit from coaching to give me the best possible start to this new phase of my life. After a few sessions I made tweaks to my mindset that really helped me build my self-confidence. I used the job-searching process as a process to discover myself too. I trusted the process, and myself, and got the perfect job - couldn't be happier. I'm grateful to Sila for all her support through this self-discovery journey!

Andy - London

I was stuck in a job I wasn't sure about for years. As I'm in my mid-forties I kind of accepted that that was it. However, Sila helped me see my circumstances from different perspectives, which allowed me to make more conscious decisions and understand how I'm building my life with my thoughts minute by minute. I now feel more confident, motivated, and excited about my life!